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  1. I was gonna try to move my Lawnmower Blenny to my fuge so i could put a Starry Blenny in my ST but he is playing hard to get and I am not gonna pull all my rock out. Anyone have any luck keeping two in the same tank?

  2. What are you trying to filter from the water? Are you trying to clear particles so the water looks clear or are you trying to improve water quality? I am with CCR on this one, the less the better. A canister is good for running media, as CCR said, but from my experience you start putting foam pads or other things in there they become nitrate factories. I just recently removed mine for this reason. If you want to improve water quality I would lean to the refugium and leave the mechanical filters alone. Just my humble opinion.

  3. You know. I think you know what to do. You sound like a pretty intelligent squared away person. You would be surprised how many people wouldn't have even put a second thought into letting turd brother-in-law around their kids. Unfortunatly I see this a lot. I applaud you not being an enabler to this scrote bag and realizing that going down and stomping a mudhole in him (even though its probably well deserved) isn't appropriate. I say if you wanna keep peace, not necessarily with him, but with the other family members, you let them hold the child when sister and bro in law arent around and when they come around just make up some excuse why you have to hold your child ie. the child is tired, hungry, sick, fussy ect right now. That way you get to share your little bundle of joy with the ones you want and you don't start any Jerry Springer style family brawls.

  4. Well first off I think the family being upset is second to your childs safety and your peice of mind, they will get over it. Secondly, I would guess that he is on some kind of probation/parole, or required to register if he is a sex offender ( I only assume that is the crime your referring to) so it would be a violation of these for him to be around children in most cases. I think you are on the right track I think I would just tell the family that you don't approve of his past criminal behavior and you aren't going to allow him to handle your child, or just let him hold the child and hover right around him, watching his every move. That would probably make him uncomfortable enoughg that he wouldn't want to hold the child for long. Just my humble opinion.

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