reef165 Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 I am so sorry for your loss!! I am also sorry that I didnt get to know him! Him and I worked/did the same job for the same companies. My thoughts are with the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twogirls Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 Just saw and read! I am so sorry!!! I just lost my brother, and holy cow it is such a challenge not to try to find reason in these situations. I say "Go with God" I hope that there was no pain and he went quick and easy! I know we were planning on doing some tattoo work, now if any of the family members want to be honored by his memory through a memorial tattoo. I will do this for free, no charge, my pleasure!! Sunshine and Smiles, Clay Clay... this is Teresa. Can I ask if you guys had gotten to the point of planning a tattoo as far as what he was going to get? May sound weird but I know he had a lot of ideas. If when I'm ready I could come down and get a memorial tattoo that would be amazing!! He had this song by Crowbar called All I had I gave that he had wanted tattooed on him. It was even the song he wanted played at his service so we did. I think it would mean a huge deal to have that on me. It may be a bit, but it really would be amazing. I will continue to check this site daily just to see all the great words you all are placing here for him. I really do appreciate them all. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wegotjs Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 Sorry to hear of your loss. Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald525 Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 Just had a thought group. I thought it would be nice to add points to Twogirls reputation and leave comments to see if we can exponentially up his rep power! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biomekanic Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 I never had the chance to meet or talk to him, but I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. The loss of one of us diminishes all of us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michael7979 Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 Clay... this is Teresa. Can I ask if you guys had gotten to the point of planning a tattoo as far as what he was going to get? May sound weird but I know he had a lot of ideas. If when I'm ready I could come down and get a memorial tattoo that would be amazing!! He had this song by Crowbar called All I had I gave that he had wanted tattooed on him. It was even the song he wanted played at his service so we did. I think it would mean a huge deal to have that on me. It may be a bit' date=' but it really would be amazing. I will continue to check this site daily just to see all the great words you all are placing here for him. I really do appreciate them all.[/quote'] This sounds very cool! Would love to see it when finished! Again I hope for the best for you and yours, and mostly the girls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jadams7 Posted March 30, 2010 Share Posted March 30, 2010 Had the pleasure of meeting him a few times...great guy. He will definitely be missed, and if there is anything the family needs dont hesitate to ask. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald525 Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Bumping it up just to keep the thread going. Teresa I hope you and the girls are hanging in there. Please let us know if we can do anything for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Wow, definately too young to go. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nwcoralfarm Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 I never had the pleasure but as stated before we here are all like a family and he will be missed. My condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jgf86123 Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Just saw and read! I am so sorry!!! I just lost my brother, and holy cow it is such a challenge not to try to find reason in these situations. I say "Go with God" I hope that there was no pain and he went quick and easy! I know we were planning on doing some tattoo work, now if any of the family members want to be honored by his memory through a memorial tattoo. I will do this for free, no charge, my pleasure!! Sunshine and Smiles, Clay Clay, you are a bit goofy at times and I always tend to smile when reading one of your posts, how you are so happy all the time is beyond me, but, this makes you a totally rad dude man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald525 Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Teresa, I work with children and see way too many fathers and mothers who are not a part of their kid's lives and how that affects them the rest of their lives. I never met twogirls but his screen name showed how important his girls were to him. Even though twogirls life was way too short the love and time he spent with his girls will have lifelong positive effects for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted April 6, 2010 Share Posted April 6, 2010 Teresa' date=' I work with children and see way too many fathers and mothers who are not a part of their kid's lives and how that affects them the rest of their lives. I never met twogirls but his screen name showed how important his girls were to him. Even though twogirls life was way too short the love and time he spent with his girls will have lifelong positive effects for them.[/quote'] The day I met him last summer this is exactly what he was doing. (Spending time with his girls) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClayTheSavageFraser Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 Clay' date=' you are a bit goofy at times and I always tend to smile when reading one of your posts, how you are so happy all the time is beyond me, but, this makes you a totally rad dude man.[/quote'] Thank you, I just know where I've been and where I am going. I am ready when you are Theresa! Clay 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twogirls Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 Thank you, I just know where I've been and where I am going. I am ready when you are Theresa! Clay Thank you Clay. I will most likely get in contact with you soon. Think it might help this process. I really do appreciate it. Teresa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markdadof2 Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 Teresa, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I will certainly include you and the girls in my prayers and if you ever need help with the tanks just let me know. I have two girls as well and this really hit home with me. God Bless you and your girls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClayTheSavageFraser Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 I would love to help in anyway!! Hope you're keeping your head up!! Clay Thank you Clay. I will most likely get in contact with you soon. Think it might help this process. I really do appreciate it. Teresa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twogirls Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 I appreciate everyone's nice words. The girls and I are doing okay. Shanoah is 7 and she won't really talk about daddy. Samantha is 3 and she thinks daddy is coming back. It's torture and heart breaking. But from an every day stand point they are functioning well. Thank you all again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michael7979 Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 Glad to hear they are doing OK day-to-day. I miss you the best! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reefboy Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 maybe not now but if you or your girls want to stay apart of this club I would love to sponsor your membership here and help out anyway I can if you or your girls are interested in keeping the hobby going. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twogirls Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 Just in case anyone was interested in seeing how much he is loved and missed. visit justinsaunders.com for a compilation of memories and photos. There is also a place for you to leave your memories. This is in addition to his facebook page. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twogirls Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 In the future,,, yes. Now it's the day to day function. When we are ready we'll set up that 60 cube he was so proud of. Just a matter of being able to take care of ourselves really well first. I do appreciate it. Thank you maybe not now but if you or your girls want to stay apart of this club I would love to sponsor your membership here and help out anyway I can if you or your girls are interested in keeping the hobby going. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michael7979 Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 maybe not now but if you or your girls want to stay apart of this club I would love to sponsor your membership here and help out anyway I can if you or your girls are interested in keeping the hobby going. WOW JODY!!! You are the most awesomiest person!!! Very generous of you!! U (rock2) (rock2) (rock2) (rock2) (rock2) (rock2) (rock2) (rock2) (rock2)!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald525 Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 That is very generous of you Jody! That's awesome. Teresa if you need any ideas for support groups and counseling, I know of some in the Portland area that are awesome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twogirls Posted April 19, 2010 Share Posted April 19, 2010 I am trying to find something for the girls. More of like a group setting. Was going to call dougy center tomorrow but if you have any other names of places that would be amazing. I'm not ready to even deal with counseling for me yet. Kind of would mean that it's real and I'm rocking the denial card pretty well, but my girls need help. They really don't understand. That is very generous of you Jody! That's awesome. Teresa if you need any ideas for support groups and counseling' date=' I know of some in the Portland area that are awesome.[/quote'] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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